The Mystery Behind Helping Others|-|Rex Chimex Blog

Written by: Muoka chibuzor and Okezie Izuchukwu

The Key to life is not Accumulation, its Contribution

What does it mean to help?

To help means to do something that makes it easier for someone to do a Job or deal with a problem. Primarily it’s all about “ASSISTANCE”. Some are born with golden spoon while the others are born with silver spoon and some none. People from the rich class usually do not struggle much to get what they want, unlike the poor class who need help and the help they need is just one or two steps to achieve their goals.

The help we render to one another makes the world a better place to dwell in; because if people do not help one another, so many calamities which could be averted will befall us.

The mystery behind “HELP” can only be demystified when we discover the obvious fact that “one tree does not make a forest” and no one can possibly predict the exact content of the future. Thus, the help you render today might be a blessing to you when you least expected.

HELP

H – Helping others is the way we help ourselves.

E – Every kind gesture can reach a wound that only compassion can heal.

L – Let others achieve their dreams and you will achieve yours.

P – People don’t need a reason to render help.

Helping others can be a cure not just for those who are in need but for your soul as well – Marinela Reka.

Some people believe that when they render help, then they lose their resources and maybe the individual who is assisted will become greater than them and perhaps intimidate them. Others are of the opinion that “the people whom they have helped in the past never showed appreciation” therefore no need to help the people they encounter in the future.

Now Listen….

Only by giving are you able to receive more than you already have [a true fact]. Keeping all you have in your pockets without helping the needy makes that resources you have, useless before God and Humanity. Impacting more in lives is more valuable that building unnecessary luxuries and then have beggars at your gate. Whoever is generous to the poor lends to God and he will repay him for his deeds. So don’t be afraid when you help people, for you shall never lack, rather you encounter more blessings.

When we talk about people being greater than you as a result of your help to them. You should not be scared, rather you should know that you don’t need to be better than anyone else, you just need to better than you used to be. When you are afraid, do the thing you are afraid of and soon you will lose fear of it and do more. Help people and greatness will surround and make you impeccable. God’s plans for you are better than any plans you have for yourself. So don’t be afraid of God’s will, even if it’s different from yours, for the blessings of God will never elude you.

Strong people don’t put others down, instead they lift them up. Don’t be afraid that those you lift up will turn around to intimidate you because people who bite the hand that feeds them usually lick the boot that kicks them.

If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you. This is the principal difference between a dog and man. – Mark Twain.

When you discover that most people have decided not to show appreciation, it should not deter you from still helping others because you don’t need a reason to help people. When you help people, with all your heart, do it because you really want to and amid their unappreciative life style will calamity befall them.

But don’t waste your time, money, energy and love on someone who is unappreciative and brings heartache into your life. Because of human limitations we can’t help people who isn’t willing to help themselves. Everyone may deserve love, but not everyone may deserve your love because God is the only one capable of loving all above human loving ability.

Finally, the strongest people make time to help others, even if they’re struggling with their own personal demons and success is not all about what you gain in life or accomplished for yourself, it’s mostly about what you do for others and that’s what counts most. That’s the legacy you leave behind.

Never get tired of doing little things for others, sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts.

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