Marriage is Just like Shoe Purchase

Written by: Uche Wisdom and Muoka Chibuzor

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MARRIAGE is Just like Shoe Purchase. When you select and wear oversize, be ready to drag it along throughout life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains throughout life. 

It’s not a mystery, it’s just a reality and it can’t be ignored nor waved off in a flash.

One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this article.

Dear Singles,

When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:

1. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE:

Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. 

Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. 

It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife.

If you don’t know where you are going, you might wind up someplace else. – Yogi Berra

It is more important to know where you are going than to get there quickly. Do not mistake activity for achievement. Remember that there is nothing stable in human affairs, therefore avoid undue elation in prosperity or undue depression in adversity.

2. POSITION:

All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people's sizes and the adult sizes. 

Know where to get your own shoe. Your size cannot be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister.

If you don’t know what you want, you end up with a lot you don’t. – Chuck Palahniuk

You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club. Your wife or husband can't just be everywhere. Stick to your values and therein you shall find someone like you, but when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. Discover yourself and define your values.

If you know what you want,

If you have made up your mind,

If you can see it, feel it, and move towards it in some way every single day….

It has to happen.

PERCEPTION:

In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, listen closely to your views and vibes, how you feel and you’re your convictions. Finally do not conclude you can do it all by yourself, be wise to also consult the SHOE MANUFACTURER (GOD ALMIGHTY) to help and guild you as you move in search of your shoe size. For there is nothing impossible for him to do.

Your wishes will surely came true.

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