Masturbation
is an act that involves self-stimulation of one’s sexual organ to achieve
sexual gratification or orgasm. Million today are slaves to this addictive act,
and whenever this act is mentioned many believe men are the only people
involved in it, but statistics reveal that 87% of men and 69% of women
masturbate.
Most
masturbators believe that masturbation has no adverse effect whatsoever and
that is why some even encourage their friends to masturbate.
Even though
some have many reasons why they masturbate, reasons like to
1. Avoid
sexually transmitted diseases.
2. Improve
their sexual performance.
3. Relieve
sexual pressure.
4. Relieve
emotional tension.
Yet in
reality even with these reasons masturbation has adverse effects. Recent studies shows that masturbation has
contributed to some sexual and psychological problems people suffer from.
The adverse
effects of Masturbation Includes –
1. Weak
Erection
A regular
masturbator can easily weaken his penile organ by applying undue or excessive
pressure to his penis while rubbing it during the act. The pressure can weaken
the penile muscle or veins that supply blood to his penis which enable strong
erection to be achieved during sexual stimulation, thereby causing weak
erection if veins are too weak to supply enough blood and if the penile muscles
has been weakened.
2. Undesired
Ejaculation
Frequently
masturbators tends to ejaculate very quickly than it is supposed to be. If the
ejaculatory reflex adapts to the condition the masturbator is forcing it, the
masturbator in question will always ejaculate very quickly if eventually he
engages in the normal sexual act. Some masturbators may also find it very
difficult to ejaculate depending on their mode of masturbation.
3. Low Sperm
Count
It takes the
already manufacture sperm cells 3 months to reach maturity. Frequent
masturbation can reduce the quality of sperm cells in the body of a man, and
continuous masturbation could never allow already produced sperm cells to reach
maturity. This can lead to low sperm count in some men.
4. Increased
Sexual Libido
Some women
find it very difficult to achieve satisfaction from a man during sexual act.
Excessive masturbation can cause such a problem in women, especially those
addicted to pornography and masturbation, their sexual fantasy controls their
mind, but fantasy is different from reality because in reality their partner
may not do what those pornographic actors do that fuels their mind and sexual
urge, so they find it difficult to achieve satisfaction.
5.
Self-centeredness
Most
addicted masturbators are self-centered when it comes to sexual satisfaction,
they only wants to satisfy themselves first during sex without consideration of
their partner. This selfishness can put a strain in a relationship.
6. Increased
cervical cancer risk
Women that
often use lubricants to aid them masturbate has increased risk of suffering
from cervical cancer. Prolonged use of lubricants always poses risk. Also, use
of objects like candle, carrot, cucumber and dirty fingers increases the risk
of causing vaginal injury or introducing harmful bacteria into the vaginal
tracts which increases risk of infection.
Masturbation
is even a more destructive act because it is addictive and very difficult to
quit. Even with real efforts and honest intention to quit masturbation, some
find out that they cannot quit, but the good news is that a chronic masturbator
can stop this habit if this vital point are considered and applied.
Ways to destroy the habit of masturbation
1. Avoid
Pornography
The reason
why many are unable to quit masturbation is because they view pornography. It can
in the form of movies, pictures, stories or audio. Pornography is just a mental
fuel to the mind, the eyes and ears are directly linked to our mind and wrong
information tends to stay longer on the mind. The first step to stopping this
act is to avoid watching or taking in these unwholesome information.
2. Avoid
dwelling on unwholesome thoughts
Most of our
actions are what we thought over and over in our minds. So do not dwell on
immoral thoughts because dwelling on wrong sexual thoughts will never encourage
a masturbator to quit rather it will fuel his actions. Always dwell on
wholesome thoughts, read up building materials and always think positively.
3. Avoid Situations
that can arouse the desire
Some
masturbators admitted that some situations influences them to masturbate. For some
the urge to masturbate comes when they find themselves all alone in a room,
read a certain type of book, or watch a certain type of movie.
In such a
situation the best remedy is to avoid such situations or to stop doing such
thing once the urge has come, leave the scene and associate himself with others,
but the wisest thing to avoid such situations that can arouse the desire in the
first place.
4. Pray for
assistance
Never underestimate
the power of prayers. If you find spirit willing to quit but your weak flesh is
giving in every time, then its time you pour out your trouble to your maker God
who understands your troubles and struggle. God is ever ready to help you
conquer this habit once you make it a subject of your prayer and constantly beg
for his help.
5. Backup
your prayer with proper action
Faith without
wok they said is dead. So if you truly wish to quit masturbation you must show
your willingness by your actions. Try as much as you can to control the urge
when it comes. It was never easy for people that successfully overcame this
habit and will not be for you. But be rest assured that you can successfully
quit like others by working hard with proper actions.
When there
is a relapse
Even after
applying these above tips one may still masturbate along the line. Now
remember, quitting masturbation is not automatic but a gradual process. A temporary
relapse never meant you cannot quit, so instead of giving up your hard work and
determination the wisest thing to do is to pause, think and evaluate what lead
to the relapse. Then work harder to avoid such happening again next time.
If you are
climbing a building stairway and you miss a step when you are almost at the
top, you will not go back and start afresh from the bottom stair but rather you
will continue from where you miss a step. A 65 years man that successfully quit
masturbation said “I struggled with this habit for good 15 years, but with
perseverance I came off a winner.”
An addicted
masturbator can successfully quit, although the struggle to quit is a tough fight
and a long road to travel. With persistent determination, an addict can come
off victorious and avoid all health risks associated with the habit.
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